Does anyone have bets on when he's going to propose to me? Here is some background info:
We've been together 19 months, have lived together for 13 of those.
We got a dog together 3 months ago.
I have a stable career, but he is having some issues with his current work and would like to find something new.
He has told me he wants to marry me, but he doesn't think we should rush into it.
He wants to buy the house we are currently renting (his dad owns it). After telling him I don't want to buy a house together until we get married, he said that we should get married and then buy the house.
Yesterday he said that he wants to talk to his dad about how much he could buy the house for this weekend, and try to get the purchasing moving forward! But then, when I made a comment about getting engaged, he said that I need to just wait because it will happen. But then he asked me why I want to get married so badly (after he initiated the marriage then house conversation), so I gave him all the reasons I felt it was important. He just kissed me and said okay, and that was the end.
So I can't tell if he truly wants to wait to get engaged, or if he's just messing with me. Because this house thing really feels like it's going forward. But every time I try to talk about engagement anything, he laughs and tells me no or stop. Did anyone else deal with this? Are these signs that it will be a while, or are these signs that it will be soon?