Hi all.
My FI and myself are paying for our wedding entirely. We're inviting around 75 or so people to attend our cake/punch reception. The ceremony is starting at 2:00, should be over by 2:30 and guests walk a block to our reception venue. Our menu is finger sandwiches, a fruit and vegetable tray, cake, punch and other sweet treats. We might add something like meatballs or another kind of meat. We are also not providing any alcohol as to not upset our families who oppose to any kind of drinking.
Members of our bridal party have been giving FI and myself crap for not providing a meal or alcohol and want to sneak in their own drinks. To the few friends we've mentioned that we're going down the dry wedding cake/punch reception, they have expressed to us how they may not have as much fun since we aren't providing full meal and alcohol.
FI and I think we're being good hosts. We're not mentioning any other details to friends except for including the cake/punch line on invitations so everyone knows to not expect a full meal. Are cake/punch receptions unheard of? Is having a dry wedding that big of a deal?