I'll try to keep this as short and to the point as I can...
My ex and I are still friends. We've been friends for almost 8 years and have only gone out for 4 months MANY years ago. Even though we are still friends, he is still an ex. My fiance and I have agreed that absolutely no ex's or flings are going to be invited to the wedding. My issue is, my ex keeps asking me when my wedding is and saying things like "don't forget to invite me." I've already told him right after I was first engaged that we will not be inviting ex's, but he's just not getting that this rule means that he will also not be invited.
Should I be more direct even if it means hurting his feelings (he's overly sensitive) or should I just ignore it and face whatever uncomfortable email I have coming after he realizes he wasn't invited? What would you guys do/say?