So me and my fiancée aren't having a real wedding ceremony. Instead we are just going to the courthouse and getting married, hoping all the bridesmaids and groomsman will be aloud in there. But since we already want our son to be the ring bearer and my young sister to be a flower girl and to take part in some way, would it be weird if at the reception we have the flower girl come out with her flower petals before the wedding party is announced and the ring bearer come and give us our rings after we sit down?