My brother and I were always really close forever. When his first child was born I was the first to know and practically helped raise him for two years.
Since he got remarried 2 years ago its like my brother has dropped off the Earth. I never see or hear from him, despite living 2 miles away and me extending invites.
Their first child together was born 9 months ago and I got a text AFTER she was born. I didn't even know they were in labor. I told him that it hurt my feelings and that I'd like to be kept updated on these things because I love them.
Cut to right now on lunch break, I just found out after 200 people on Facebook that they are expecting. I know its not the adult thing to do but I so badly want to comment on it something like "thanks for letting the family know first". I know it would only cause drama but dammit I'm pissed off. And I'm just hurt that he's not my same brother as a fee years ago, who called me with everything and always stopped by my house. Ugh.