This will be my fiancé's second marriage and my first. We want a small, intimate wedding at a church and then a reception of about 150 people in my backyard. Frankly, I don't want a wedding party because, although I have many friends, I haven't known many of them long enough and at an intimate enough level to ask them to be in my wedding. I was one of those girls who was very independent. Because I am not having a wedding party and my reception will be outside in my yard I am not sure that I want a DJ- plus, looking at my guest list I don't think I have many on the list that would bust-a-move. We will have a bonfire at the reception when the sun goes down (hopefully the weather cooperates), but what other things can you do at a reception with no DJ besides bags, ladder game, etc?