My amazingly adorable niece is turning 1 next week. She's my FI's sister's first born -- and also the first baby in the family. Needless to say, she's spoiled rotten as we all love buying her stuff. My FI and I have been buying her things here and there since after Christmas and just saving it for her birthday. One really boring day last week, I wrapped everything, signed the card, tied the bow, all ready to go.
Then we received the birthday party invitation, cute as can be, with big bold letters at the bottom: No gifts, PLEASE.
Will I be rude for showing up the party with a gift? Is my FSIL rude for writing that? If I leave the gift at home and other guests bring gifts, how big of an idiot will I feel?