Looking for honesty here...I can handle it. But also advice.
I want to preface this by saying that I know I cannot technically dictate what anyone but BD wears to the wedding.
FMIL went dress shopping without my knowledge, even after her and my mom had made unofficial plans to go together, and I had expressed interest in going together (not so I could dictate, just something fun). That's not really the part that makes me mad. She texted me after the fact saying she found her dress for the wedding (great!). I asked to see it...so she sends me pictures. It is a very very light blush color, with a white lace overlay. Everyone who has seen the pictures (about 5 people) have said it looks like a wedding dress...so it's not just me. It does. And it's final sale.
Things have transpired that I would prefer not to get in to. Just want to know all your opinions and what you would do. Thanks in advanced!