I've read some crazy shit here and heard IRL about people who feel their wedding can be ruined by the wrong color lipstick, guests wearing white, estranged family member showing up, a bad attitude on anyone, and so on.
Every time I hear/read something I try to put myself in the shoes of a bride. What would actually bother me as a bride? I feel like I wouldn't care at all with regard to guests' clothing or attitudes-- sometimes people have a bad day and might have something going on that I'm not aware of, it's okay. And on the off chance that it's malicious, then it's funny you'd come to an event centered entirely around someone you don't like. I honestly feel like the only thing that could ruin my wedding are something happening that prevents the day from happening like the groom or officiant not showing up. Just like with any day, something can happen to disturb it and it's my choice whether it affects me.
Is there anything or anyone that can/did ruin your wedding for you?