We met with our officiant yesterday and she said she had only one rule
and that is that photographs will not be allowed during the ceremony.
This includes both the professional photographers and the guests. At
first I was a little put-off because I always imagined having photos to document the ceremony, but on thinking about it more I decided that I like the idea of being totally "in the moment" rather than "on camera" and there will be so many photos from the rest of the day that I don't really care.
Has anyone else had an experience like this? Were you bummed out that there were no photos of the ceremony? Of course we can just tell our photographers not to take any pictures during the ceremony, but the passing the words to guests is a little stickier - I've lurked on these boards long enough to know that a little sign saying "no photos" could be perceived as rude.
Ideas? Thoughts?