My brother and his girlfriend were together for 4 years and recently broke up in January but before they broke up I had asked them both to be apart of my wedding. Now they are not really speaking and have been talking to other people. I know my brother must be in my wedding since he's my brother but I don't want his ex to feel uncomfortable being apart of it. I have kept in contact with her and talk to her about up coming dates to look at bridesmaid dresses and she speaks as if she is ok still being about of it.
My question is should I speak to her about her feelings of being in the wedding or should I wait for her to ask me to take her out. I have heard from others that she does not feel comfortable being apart of it anymore but has not said anything to me and acts as if she is ok.
She is still my friend and would like her to be apart of it but only if she is ok with it. I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings or to make anyone uncomfortable.