We are having a small intimate ceremony(35 people) and a small "reception" after (70 people) should we register for gifts? Part of me wants to register since we have nothing, we're literally starting our lives together. But the other part doesn't think it's necessary if there's a small amount of people. My friend has also mentioned that she wants to throw a party for all of our friends who couldn't make it, or more so who weren't invited, as a way to celebrate our marriage. What does etiquette say about this?! I'm super confused!