Hi all,
Wanted to get thoughts on what time block seems best for my reception. I am having my ceremony at a church at 1pm -- it is a full Catholic mass, so it will last around an hour to and hour and a half -- and so it should probably be finished about 2:30. The reception will be at a separate location about a 10 minute drive away.
We are not doing a first look before the ceremony, so the photos with us and the wedding party will take place afterwards, but before the reception. The church has told us we need to have those finished by around 3:30, as there is a general mass at 4:30 and they want time to set up for that.
The reception hall is booked for our date already, but the time block we have it for is not set in stone yet. The one rule is that we get 6 hours. I was thinking the first 30 min to hour would probably be cocktail time, and then the wedding party would enter. What block seems most guest-friendly and reasonable? 4:00-10:00? 4:30 to 10:30? Or 5:00 to 11:00?
Also, nearly all of our guests will be from out of town. I realize the proposed times above will still mean that our guests will have a few hours to kill in between the ceremony and reception. I've been to a few weddings where this has happened before, and I was fine with it is a guest since it gave me a little space to go to my hotel and rest before partying, but what is the general consensus? I could have the reception start as early as 3:00, but that means we would have to have it wrap up by 9pm, which seems early to me.