I invited a very close cousin to be one of my bridesmaids. To my surprise, she declined with the response that she would be almost 9 months pregnant on my wedding day and would not feel comfortable in the dress, in pictures, etc. She also hinted that she was very stressed with having another baby within a year of her previous baby, and I am sure money would be tight. I was very understanding with her and told her I only wanted her to be happy and comfortable. I did not want this to change our relationship, and told her I would still consider her an honorary bridesmaid. Now we are getting closer to the wedding, and I still have one less bridesmaid than we have groomsmen. (I didn't feel right asking anyone as a "second choice".) I don't want anyone to ask questions or make anything uncomfortable (as people always do) and I was trying to think of a way we could honor her as a bridesmaid without putting the spotlight on her. I know its ridiculous to be worried about an uneven wedding party, but I can't deny that I would be curious if I were a guest. Any advice?