Did a few google searches on this (not planning on having one at all, just found myself reading a lot about etiquette recently) and was disheartened to notice that more and more seem to be seeing it as an understandable practice.
I'm sure you all know that by "tiered reception" I am referring to when the A-list gets dinner and the full reception, B-list invited a few hours later for dancing and maybe some drinks.
Things like:
"Younger couples are doing this as a money saving option for themselves."
"They still want to celebrate with many of their friends, but simply can't afford it, so it's a compromise."
"We didn't lie to anyone when we did it, and did not expect gifts."
"Most work associates and people who are only casual friends with a couple understand."
"It's not a gift grab because gifts are only given at the beginning of the reception so none of the "second wave" people have to bring one."
"Practically expected in the country I live in."
Is anyone else noticing that it's becoming more accepted?