Glorious Wednesday

VarunaTT

Wear WTF you want 6 and who cares what they wear?  I'm always overdressed, b/c I like looking put together and I prefer dresses.  I'm old enough and I've claimed my space in this world, haters gonna hate.

Yeah, I am cranky AF.

charlotte989875

VarunaTT said:

Wear WTF you want 6 and who cares what they wear?  I'm always overdressed, b/c I like looking put together and I prefer dresses.  I'm old enough and I've claimed my space in this world, haters gonna hate.

Yeah, I am cranky AF.

I like cranky Varuna!

6fsn

VarunaTT said:

Wear WTF you want 6 and who cares what they wear?  I'm always overdressed, b/c I like looking put together and I prefer dresses.  I'm old enough and I've claimed my space in this world, haters gonna hate.

Yeah, I am cranky AF.

I know. I’m just tired of them making fun of me. About everything. 

charlotte989875

6fsn said:

VarunaTT said:

Wear WTF you want 6 and who cares what they wear?  I'm always overdressed, b/c I like looking put together and I prefer dresses.  I'm old enough and I've claimed my space in this world, haters gonna hate.

Yeah, I am cranky AF.

I know. I’m just tired of them making fun of me. About everything. 

They sound awful. SNS, but who are these people that would do this?!

kimmiinthemitten

6fsn said:

VarunaTT said:

Wear WTF you want 6 and who cares what they wear?  I'm always overdressed, b/c I like looking put together and I prefer dresses.  I'm old enough and I've claimed my space in this world, haters gonna hate.

Yeah, I am cranky AF.

I know. I’m just tired of them making fun of me. About everything. 

Then I’d wear whatever the eff I wanted *and* bring a bottle of my favorite wine- for me. 

short+sassy

VarunaTT said:

Wear WTF you want 6 and who cares what they wear?  I'm always overdressed, b/c I like looking put together and I prefer dresses.  I'm old enough and I've claimed my space in this world, haters gonna hate.

Yeah, I am cranky AF.

It's nice to have a kindred spirit!  I know most people prefer pants and love jeans and all that.  However I am not one of them, mainly because pants just don't fit me right.

I'm short, even petites are too long.  I've found that buying regular capris are the best choice to look like full length pants on me, lol.  I have a 10" difference between my waist and hips.  Which is apparently an "off from average" proportion, because while my legs will feel like their being tortured in a vice, my waist is swimming.  Pants are usually uncomfortable for me because of that.  Sometimes they'll still look okay but, usually, they're not very flattering either.  

So I primarily stick to skirts and dresses.  Which I find so much more comfortable. 

VarunaTT

6fsn said:

VarunaTT said:

Wear WTF you want 6 and who cares what they wear?  I'm always overdressed, b/c I like looking put together and I prefer dresses.  I'm old enough and I've claimed my space in this world, haters gonna hate.

Yeah, I am cranky AF.

I know. I’m just tired of them making fun of me. About everything. 

I don't like them.  Also, I can give advice on shade, but I know they won't get it, but husband will and that's not fair.  I think I'd just call them on the shit with some honesty.

"Hey, I like the way I'm dressed.  It's pretty hurtful, you trying to judge me for the clothes I like.  I don't judge you for your clothes." and flounce off.  FLOUNCE.  OFF.

VarunaTT

short+sassy said:

VarunaTT said:

Wear WTF you want 6 and who cares what they wear?  I'm always overdressed, b/c I like looking put together and I prefer dresses.  I'm old enough and I've claimed my space in this world, haters gonna hate.

Yeah, I am cranky AF.

It's nice to have a kindred spirit!  I know most people prefer pants and love jeans and all that.  However I am not one of them, mainly because pants just don't fit me right.

I'm short, even petites are too long.  I've found that buying regular capris are the best choice to look like full length pants on me, lol.  I have a 10" difference between my waist and hips.  Which is apparently an "off from average" proportion, because while my legs will feel like their being tortured in a vice, my waist is swimming.  Pants are usually uncomfortable for me because of that.  Sometimes they'll still look okay but, usually, they're not very flattering either.  

So I primarily stick to skirts and dresses.  Which I find so much more comfortable. 

I'm pretty much in favor of no pants.  

But I also don't like the way most pants fit.  Jeans are particularly terrible.  I do have a belly, but even when i was 50 pounds lighter, I had a problem fitting my butt into jeans and fitting at the waist.  So I just gave up.  Dresses usually  mean putting one thing one and accessories, so less thinking in the morning and they always look professional, so easy-peasy.

Though someone did ask if I wore dresses all the time b/c of religion.  And I sat there, with my chopped short hair, earrings, heels, bracelet, full face of makeup, and queer AF NB partner by my side and head tilted the hell out of the person.  I mean, I don't know which religion it is, but it's apparently a helluva good time!  

kimmiinthemitten

So the caterer I work for has a cafe/market in an urban suburb here.  The catering/leadership team works from the back in an open-office setting. 

Someone (needless to say a man) came in today wanting to speak to a manager.  So I explained we were currently in a meeting and asked what about, he says about performing on our patio during bar hours.  I explain that while we sell retail wine and beer we don't serve it, but if he wanted to leave his information he could and we could consider him if that became an option.  He responds by asking for a manager.  I said yes and stared.  He said, I mean like upper management, you know, I said yes and stared.  He was like oh.

Guess whose band will never play here.?

levioosa

Jack knocked the center stone out of my ring today. So now I’m getting it fixed. He is such an asshole. 

@kimmiinthemitten I hope that guy keeps burning his bridges across town. What a jerk. 

6fsn

VarunaTT said:

6fsn said:

VarunaTT said:

Wear WTF you want 6 and who cares what they wear?  I'm always overdressed, b/c I like looking put together and I prefer dresses.  I'm old enough and I've claimed my space in this world, haters gonna hate.

Yeah, I am cranky AF.

I know. I’m just tired of them making fun of me. About everything. 

I don't like them.  Also, I can give advice on shade, but I know they won't get it, but husband will and that's not fair.  I think I'd just call them on the shit with some honesty.

"Hey, I like the way I'm dressed.  It's pretty hurtful, you trying to judge me for the clothes I like.  I don't judge you for your clothes." and flounce off.  FLOUNCE.  OFF.

I love dresses. It’s only one thing think about and theyre forgiving. I’d like to think I’d remember this, but I won’t. I’m taking a flask. 

charlotte989875

VarunaTT said:

short+sassy said:

VarunaTT said:

Wear WTF you want 6 and who cares what they wear?  I'm always overdressed, b/c I like looking put together and I prefer dresses.  I'm old enough and I've claimed my space in this world, haters gonna hate.

Yeah, I am cranky AF.

It's nice to have a kindred spirit!  I know most people prefer pants and love jeans and all that.  However I am not one of them, mainly because pants just don't fit me right.

I'm short, even petites are too long.  I've found that buying regular capris are the best choice to look like full length pants on me, lol.  I have a 10" difference between my waist and hips.  Which is apparently an "off from average" proportion, because while my legs will feel like their being tortured in a vice, my waist is swimming.  Pants are usually uncomfortable for me because of that.  Sometimes they'll still look okay but, usually, they're not very flattering either.  

So I primarily stick to skirts and dresses.  Which I find so much more comfortable. 

I'm pretty much in favor of no pants.  

But I also don't like the way most pants fit.  Jeans are particularly terrible.  I do have a belly, but even when i was 50 pounds lighter, I had a problem fitting my butt into jeans and fitting at the waist.  So I just gave up.  Dresses usually  mean putting one thing one and accessories, so less thinking in the morning and they always look professional, so easy-peasy.

Though someone did ask if I wore dresses all the time b/c of religion.  And I sat there, with my chopped short hair, earrings, heels, bracelet, full face of makeup, and queer AF NB partner by my side and head tilted the hell out of the person.  I mean, I don't know which religion it is, but it's apparently a helluva good time!  

Sign me up to that religion. 

But also Team Dresses/Team No Pants here. Last summer I started buy super comfy dresses (bonus points in there are pockets) and I haven't looked back. No matching pants to tops to socks. One article of clothing and I'm done. 

charlotte989875

levioosa said:

Jack knocked the center stone out of my ring today. So now I’m getting it fixed. He is such an asshole. 

@kimmiinthemitten I hope that guy keeps burning his bridges across town. What a jerk. 

That's a bummer; did you find the stone? I've lost probably 6-7 stones from my rings. That the goddess for a good warranty. 

levioosa

@charlotte989875 I luckily noticed it was falling out right when it happened so I took it in to get fixed right away. They cleaned my ring too and I was so surprised at what a difference that made. It’s only been a month but apparently I should clean it more often.