BF asked me again last night whether I'd want to get married before or after he deploys. I know he's planning to propose soon, but part of me wants to save the actual wedding planning until he actually proposes, so I keep telling him we'll figure that out once we're engaged. He's fine with that... just excited.
Anyway, he's in the Navy and will be deploying in August. As a teacher, I could SO EASILY get married in the summer before he deploys, but then we'd only have a few weeks together before he's gone.
If you had to make a similar decision, what were the pros and cons that you came up with? I know we'll ultimately make the decision that is right for us and our particular situation, but since I'm expecting a proposal soon, it would be great if you ladies could give me some "talking points" and things to think about when we actually do decide on a wedding date.
TIA!