My husband and I were both deployed when we were married by double proxy. Yes, folks he was in one place and I an another. We have been together going on 5 years and married for 4. We have 3 children together and we have both been married once before. I'm not too sure what to do. We had planned to do a vow renewal on our 5th wedding anniversarry but we have never said vows to each other. My concern that a proxy marriage, let alone a double proxy marriage is not recognized in some states and I would like to change that. I guess I'm not really too sure on how to go about doing this. My parents would love to see us have a wedding but I really don't know where to go to find out about a situation like ours . . . Any guidance will be appreciated!