My FI and I are getting married Nov. 20 of this year. We are both very excited about getting married and starting a family of our own(I have 2 kids from a previous marriage). I want to get married and then have a kid. Problem is, my FI is not even worried about the getting married part anymore. He wants us to get pregnant asap. He has been trying to convince me and since I know my cycle, I have scheduled work or been sick or something around the times when I am ovulating. I can't keep this up for much longer, what should I do? I don't want him to think that I don't want to have a baby soon, it's just I dont want to be 8 or 9 months pregnant and getting married. HELP!!