Is it okay?

jneelpsych88

...to have an uneven wedding party? My FI has 4 guys and I only have 3 girls. One had to drop out. :-/ I dont really have anyone else I can ask... But I dont want to ask him to kick someone off either. Thats not fair to him.

cmhutchison22

  It is perfectly fine to have an uneven wedding party.  I was in my cousin's wedding when I was
9 or 10 years old.  She only had two adult attendants and then I was a JBM.  When we walked in everyone walked by themselves.  Then when we walked out the MOH went out with the BM and then I went out with the two officants.

Melissa.hylton

Yes it is. I have OCD, not clincal but my own diagnosis. I need everything even and organized. It would drive me crazy to not have matching numbers. 

mekiakoo

Of course. Nobody will really notice! If you're worried about the walking down the aisle- you can do something different like having each of them walk individually or even 2 GMs with 1 BM at the same time. No problem at all.

owengirl996

Totally ok! I understand the hesitation, though. But seriously, it's no big deal. I doubt anyone will think anything of it.

Rebis58

Absolutely! FI has 6, I have 5. Not a big deal at all

Skyjewell23

Yeah its totally fine! We have a JBM and she will walk out by herself

michelle11988

Totally fine! We have 6 guys and 5 girls.  One girl just gets to be extra lucky that day and get two guys to walk her down the aisle.

butterflyjumper1

absolutely fine! ours is somewhat uneven too, since I have junior bridesmaids plus an extra matron of honor. don't worry about it at all. FSIL had an uneven number at her wedding a few years ago, and it wasn't an issue whatsoever. sorry to hear you had a BM drop out