My mom and sister moh are throwing me a bridal shower. My mom doesn't want me to know anything but my sister tells me everything. So my mom and I live in Houston and my sister lives in Port Arthur the shower was originally planned to be in Port Arthur since all the bridemaids, my fmil, and most of our family is there and it was going to be in July. Now moms wants it a week before the wedding and in Houston. This is not going to work. Everyone is not going to want to take the hour and a half drive and get hotel rooms two weekends in a row. My sister can't stand up to our mother and I'm not suppose to know. Do I talk to my mother for my sister or do I make my sister stand up.