I am getting married in 18 days. My photographer calls me up yesterday and tells me that he can't do my wedding because something "has come up" - I find out that he has double booked the day, and he wants his assistant to do my wedding. I am guessing someone else is paying more money (I am already paying him upwards of 3000 dollars!). He is offering me a 500 dollar discount on my package, or a full refund of my deposit, less the bridal portraits. I don't know what is best - should I take the refund and try to find someone else? If I do that, I will still have to deal with the original photographer to get the portraits that I want because he owns the copyright. Or should I take the discount? I am not sure that a 500 dollar discount is enough - I am paying for his work in particular, and will be getting his "assistant." I am so mad! Thoughts?