My cousin, who is my maid of honor, requested that I ask one of my other bridesmaids to plan the bachelorette party because she is more of a party person. So she has been trying to get the other bridesmaids together to plan the party but none of them can agree on a date to meet up or agree on what to do. In her frustration, she asked me to pass the party planning duties to my other cousin who is another bridesmaid. She wants to do a party bus wine tasting tour one weekend and then go clubbing the next weekend. But, she told ME to call the party bus company and set everything up for the wine tasting. She told ME to tell everyone about the plans for clubbing and my other bridesmaid said she didn't like any of the clubs my cousin suggested. I feel like I am now planning my own party and relaying the messages between my bridesmaids. I am already stressed out about the wedding because it is only a little over a month away. All I wanted was someone to step up and plan something, like what my fiance's groomsmen did for his bachelor party. One of his groomsmen gathered all the phone numbers and told them what they were doing, what time, and where and they had a great time. Am I asking for too much? Am I making this too much of an issue? What should I do?