I'm getting married 10/3. I'm 99% certain that I'm not having a shower. I only have one bridesmaid and she is 1500 miles away and can't come until 10/1. My maid of honor is busy, busy and haven't been very good with helping me plan anything at all. Of course it tacky to throw my own shower.I have a question though should I even waste my time with a registry or just let our guests decide what to get if anything? How would I go about it for the wedding guests since it's tacky to put it in the invitations??Is it OK to put a wedding website link in the invitations. My FI is really against creating one but I been telling him that we can password protect it and only share the password with those we are inviting.I been reading posts that it's tacky to put the registry information with wedding invations which is a complete surprise because every invitation that I have ever received had that info in there. So several, several, several people have done it wrong. I don't want to come across as the tacky bride. Any ideas/suggestions????