I was Maid of Honor in my friend's wedding, but I am not asking her to be in my bridal party. Good taste would indicate that she wait for an invitation, but she has already asked me twice if I have decided on my bridal party. Luckily, the wedding was far enough out that I could fib and say it was undecided, but now the wedding is ~8 months away and I can't use that excuse anymore.
She is a good friend, but she is about 100 miles away, and I have closer (uh.. emotionally, not literal distance) friends. I expect that she is going to ask again about the bridal party the next time I see her, or worse, point-blank ask if she is IN it. It is a small BP, 2.5 bridesmaids, 2.5 groomsman (we're sharing one person) so I figure I could work that in to the conversation.
Any suggestions on how I can let her down easily? Thanks ^_^
Yup, I'm one of those crazy, meticulous, everything-has-to-be-perfect brides.