My MOH is my longest friend, but we are not close any more our lives are vastly different and she is away alot. With that siad she is going through some really heavy issues and has not been available for me for anything at all. On top of it all she is a very busy person and is moving a far distance away. Although even when she lived close we never saw each other. Our relationship is text or email based.
This is not working for me, I feel guitly because I am upset with her while all this other stuff is going on for her.
I have tried to be there for her and help or support her but she just wont allow me to. I figure its a two way street, you help friends and friends help you no matter what the situation is good or bad. I need support and help for all things wedding and havent been able to get that either, so I am lost in what to do. I try to meet up with her to have an actual conversation and she doesnt even answer the phone.
I am sick of being upset and feeling like the bad guy for wanting a few simple things done by my MOH. I dont feel that the title fits anymore and I am deeply hurt by this whole situation.
Please if you have constructive advice it would be greatly appreciated.