So my MOH and I used to be really close so she of course was an easy pick for the MOH position, since then she has just kinda really dropped the ball on all of her MOH duties. She didn't come to help me pick a dress, she hasn't helped me with any of the tasks, then last weekend she gets upset because she feels like everyone is taking over her jobs... un duh, because you haven't done crap yet...My shower and bachelorette party were this past weekend, she waited until two weeks before my shower and bachelorette party to send out invites which lead to practically nobody being able to attend due to the exteremely short notice. So I told her to just cancel my shower so I didnt feel awkward. I don't know how to deal with her, my wedding is 9/15 and im at the point I don't even want her around because she makes everything about her, doesn't do anything then complians that she doesn't feel involved. What do I do?