i posted on one of the other forums that i was planning a small wedding just immediate family and possibly our two best friends... i wasn't sure about having a reception for friends...regardless even if i dont have a big reception or just have a small reception with those at the wedding do you think there is any way of doing a first dance or father/daugther dance? i dont want to miss out on those traditions just because our budget isn't as big as what we thought it would be. we decided we want to do the small wedding and a honeymoon. but any suggestions/opinions?