So my Maid of Honor texted me this morning asking if she could bring her husband to look at wedding dresses with us this weekend!!!!!!!!!! Like really? I can't believe she would even ask! Additionally, this is not a last minute thing. We have had this whole day planned for weeks, and she made up this whole crazy, completely illogical story as to why he "has" to come or she can't because they only have one car, but when I stood my ground finally backed off.
She did things differently for her wedding, like her husband came with her to pick out her dress and for her "bachelorette party" she had her husband and parents and guys and girls just go out for drinks. That's fine that she did things that way, but that is NOT ME.
My fiance is livid because it's been stressing me out and he thinks that she is going to do this to me for every event including my bridal shower and bachelorette party.
I don't know what to do because she has been my best friend for years, and I don't want to hurt her feelings, but I think it's completely rude that she even asked. She is just stressing me out and making me feel like I'm the bad guy, when in fact, she is imposing and flat out being rude. I even offered to make special arrangements to pay for a cab for him or give her a ride etc.