We're having an interfaith wedding (I'm Catholic and my Fiance is Jewish.) We agreed that we would not do a formal benching (where the entire reception stops for prayers) but my Fiance would like to have Benchers available on a table for those who would like to pray after the meal. I have no problem with people praying if they would like to, but I don't want to put the Benchers out on a special table.. it simply makes me uncomfortable. I thought maybe his parents could give them to the people they think would like them (they'll be about 5 very religous people at the wedding.) Does this sound like a reasonable compromise? How many of you are having Benchers at your wedding?