Why is it that the people that should be happiest for you are the ones that cause drama? I am praying that I don't call my mother and go off, I know no good will come from me disrespecting my mother. Anyway, my sister is pregnant and no one is happy about it. She is very needy and competitive so she is planning her shower a week before my wedding but her baby is not due until December. I think that my mother should have suggested that she have it after but instead my mother tries to make me feel guilty because things are going well for me. To top it all, she called my best friend and went off on her telling her she is my flunky and she does my dirty work, and that I dont' want my sister to have a shower at all. So not fair. My sister calls my friends and tells them her business, so my friend just asked her why did she choose October to have the shower. My sister told my mother that my friend wants her to change the date. My mother was planning my shower but now she told my friend it is all on her and she is only contributing chicken. I say cancel the whole thing because I didn't ask her to do it anyway and I don't even eat chicken!!! What do I do to keep confusion down so close to my wedding date. I am really hurt that something can't be for me just once.
Thanks for listening.