I'm having a small wedding. I have a friend from high school who was once one of my best friends, but we have since grown apart although I consider her a friend still. My fiance and I had a lot of debates over who to invite to the wedding, and she was part of the debate. He doesn't like her because she was not supportive of our relationship in the past and was kind of openly mean to him, although she shaped her behavior up later on. Because of the past issues, we decided not to extend an invitation to her, although I would just as soon rather have, but since he felt so strongly about it, I did not.
Now it's about a month before the wedding, and the friend and I are finally talking about this, and of course there are hurt feelings but no matter what route I chose, someone would have been hurt or angry.
She doesn't understand my position. But it's not just my wedding. It's my and my fiance's wedding.
Am I in the wrong here? What should I do to smooth things over? The anxiety over this is just eating at me, but it seems there's nothing I can do.