Okay, so I am having a little problem...my cousin has very graciously volunteered to be my day of coordinator and help set things up, etc (she has lots of experience with weddings), so I was really excited about that. I contacted my reception site to see what time she and one or two of my friends could come in to setup the decorations, etc (because I made most of them myself) and the lady is giving me major attitude about the whole thing. She said if I give them instructions there is no reason why her staff can't set things up, etc and in her latest e-mail she basically said her staff was fully capable, but I can do whatever I want. I am afraid she is going to be angry, but I am such a details person I want my cousin to set things up, so that I know everything is in place. This is mostly just a vent, but am I being a bridezilla???