I'm getting married and I'm having a small cabin wedding (70 or less). I want to keep it small and very intimate. But my FI's side of the family has a lot of drama in it. The main drama concern I have from his family is my relationship with his aunt and her partner. Naturally I would just not invite them but he and his family are all about 'family' despite how some of them treat eachother and so I pretty much have to invite them. Another downfall is they live in the same city as us and the rest of his family lives 25 hours away so not inviting them would things awkward. This is a small wedding in close quarters, if they attend and cause drama I will absolutely FREAK OUT. I would have a b**** fit bc there is just so much bad history with the things they've done to me and how they treat me. I swear I'm not a bridezilla but this is the one thing that will send me over the edge due to built up, continuous up and down relationship with them. Maybe I should just tell my FI that if I invite them and they make the slightest rude gesture then my reaction will not be pleasant and could possibly stain the wedding. Besides that, it being a small wedding, I just don't like knowing that they are near.