We are having a ceremony/reception at the same community hall, and we would love to host an entirely open bar, but we probably can't afford it. Is it really okay to only host beer, wine, and, say punch or lemonade? If we do that, I don't want to offer a cash bar, too, because I don't want my guests opening their wallets at all. However, what if they're bourbon drinkers? Or prefer a martini to beer or wine?
Is it really acceptable to host an open, but limited, bar? Or should we cut our guest list enough to be able to host an entirely open bar?
I am also wondering if heavy hors d'ouerves is acceptable if the wedding is held at 6 p.m., or if a full meal is required. We will adjust our guest list accordingly or make other adjustments if the consensus is that a full meal is the only acceptable option. Thanks for the input!