In general I belive in giving every adult a plus one and I intend to do so. However I do have one aunt who has a history of dating complete lunatics (her last long term bf is currently serving jail time for threatening to kill her) and I have a friend with a long history of dating drug using losers (usually shorterm). I hate to be judgemental but I would really rather not have these sorts of plus 1's at my wedding. I love my friend and my aunt (their poor romantic choices don't usually impact my life) and I don't want to bruise any feelings, but I'm sure that they are going to notice that everyone else invited to the wedding is bringing dates and they weren't given that option. How do I avoid drama in this situation?