I posted earlier about FIs relative being so offended about her daughter not being able to bring her 3 y.o. Son to the wedding, so much so that she rsvp'ed yes but has told people she wont show up. I don't have kids, so its hard for me to understand why this is so offensive to people. Weddings are a really personal thing for the bride and groom, and should, for the most part, be respected.
It just seems to me, that if you can't make it, send your regrets and move on. If you're close enough to the bride and groom to feel like you are entitled to bring your kid, you should be close enough to them to care about their feelings/wishes.
Just a rant... But also, your thoughts?