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FLAME FLAME FLAME

ahhhitsshannynahhhitsshannyn member
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Lets do this shiiiiit.

I flame Nebb for telling people "Can you guys fucking cut it out with the gifs? You know it crashes tk mobile. Come on." When she herself has a GIF in her dang sig.

First, no, not everyone knows that, I never post from my phone. And second, we can't tell  people how to post. I know she came back and said "well you can turn off sigs, you can't turn off pictures" or something like that, but no one can expect people to cater to them just because they are posting from their phone. That would be like saying "hey guys, start a new thread after you get to page 3, because it is a biiitch from my phone. Thanks." No.

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    [Deleted User][Deleted User] member
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    I flame the NC gtg thread below where they uninvited someone.
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    AdeleDazeemAdeleDazeem member
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    I really really really hate gifs in sigs.  Like, really.  That's not a good flame, but that's all I have in response.

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    SnippylynnSnippylynn member
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    *SIGH* I have a love hate relationship with Habs these days. I was so incensed the other day during the education thread when she got so... snotty... about this woman who paid 90k for her degree's. It just struck me as needlessly mean.

    Which is actually kind of hilarious coming from me.
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    ahhhitsshannynahhhitsshannyn member
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    Like you would ever be mean just to be mean SNIPPY?

    I sort of agree on the NC GTG thing. I mean I totally understand how people wouldn't want to GTG with people they don't know, but then I can imagine being on the other side and people saying "Oh yeah I am inviting everyone from NC EXCEPT you, maybe next time." I get it, but it's still sad. But like I said, it's still over a month away so they can either get to know her or they can't. It's just like food swap/ secret santa stuff all over again. Don't invite everyone if you don't plan on inviting EVERYONE.
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    aragx6aragx6 member
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_flame-flame-flame?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:49a45c49-38a0-4fee-8e5c-a8f15b65461bPost:c00bea78-ad57-4677-8b03-6b5f44bf30ac">Re: FLAME FLAME FLAME</a>:
    [QUOTE]*SIGH* I have a love hate relationship with Habs these days. I was so incensed the other day during the education thread when she got so... snotty... about this woman who paid 90k for her degree's. It just struck me as needlessly mean. Which is actually kind of hilarious coming from me.
    Posted by Snippylynn[/QUOTE]

    I started reading that thread and had to step away -- it was already many pages long and I just couldn't deal with even what I saw on the first page.
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    MyUserName1MyUserName1 member
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    Yeah, I shouldn't have posted a general thread. That was thoughtless of me.  Flame away.
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    specialk84specialk84
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    I hate gifs in sigs. HATE. I am also not a fan when threads turn into a gif contest. The occasional one is funny, but they just get on my nerves. UO?

    I agree with Shan regarding the GTG.
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    aragx6aragx6 member
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_flame-flame-flame?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:49a45c49-38a0-4fee-8e5c-a8f15b65461bPost:3472cb07-a262-4640-86f3-cba4bd59f290">Re: FLAME FLAME FLAME</a>:
    [QUOTE]Yeah, I shouldn't have posted a general thread. That was thoughtless of me.  Flame away.
    Posted by MyUserName1[/QUOTE]

    True enough, but I think it was LDY's 'negative ghost rider" thing that really rubbed me the wrong way.
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    Avion22Avion22 member
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    [QUOTE]I flame the NC gtg thread below where they uninvited someone.
    Posted by cew515[/QUOTE]

    <div>Yeah, that really rubbed me the wrong way.....exclusive invites should happen via PM, not on the public boards...</div>
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_flame-flame-flame?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:49a45c49-38a0-4fee-8e5c-a8f15b65461bPost:743dc33d-9c1b-4f5f-b4e7-9ce32d445430">Re: FLAME FLAME FLAME</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: FLAME FLAME FLAME : True enough, but I think it was LDY's 'negative ghost rider" thing that really rubbed me the wrong way.
    Posted by aragx6[/QUOTE]

    I'll take it though. It was my rudness that started it. 
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_flame-flame-flame?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:49a45c49-38a0-4fee-8e5c-a8f15b65461bPost:2564c9e1-af39-485e-9cc7-48cc23b21755">Re: FLAME FLAME FLAME</a>:
    [QUOTE]I hate gifs in sigs. HATE. I am also not a fan when threads turn into a gif contest. The occasional one is funny, but they just get on my nerves. UO? I agree with Shan regarding the GTG.
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    eye to eye

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    SnippylynnSnippylynn member
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_flame-flame-flame?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:49a45c49-38a0-4fee-8e5c-a8f15b65461bPost:d5224130-ce0c-482a-9dd9-089d6701512a">Re: FLAME FLAME FLAME</a>:
    [QUOTE]Like you would ever be mean just to be mean SNIPPY?
    Posted by ahhhitsshannyn[/QUOTE]
    Please to be reading the last part of my post where I said:

    <strong>"Which is kind of hilarious coming from me."</strong>

    You're welcome.

    I just went and read that NC thread and that is some serious bullshit right there. I don't know where I would be if I hadn't met up with random strangers in my life. People that I knew nothing about and yet? I have an incredibly good friend in Italy who I talked to less than a dozen times via a web forum before I met her in person in Modena when I moved there. Diicks, party of NC.

    And yes. It was totally LDY's incredibly flippant FLUCK YOU that upsets me the most.
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: FLAME FLAME FLAME : True enough, but I think it was LDY's 'negative ghost rider" thing that really rubbed me the wrong way.
    Posted by aragx6[/QUOTE]



    I agree. She rubs me the wrong way in general though.
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    specialk84specialk84
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    While I get why the thread was wrong, I still wonder why someone brand new would want to meet up with a bunch of internet strangers.

    ETA: I'm not picking on Steffi. I just would not feel comfortable trying to meet a bunch of you when I was brand new. It's more of an "I don't get it" than a "WTF is she thinking?"
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    mari0225mari0225
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: FLAME FLAME FLAME : True enough, but I think it was LDY's 'negative ghost rider" thing that really rubbed me the wrong way.
    Posted by aragx6[/QUOTE]

    Yeah I felt awful after reading that, she should've just said "I"m sorry I don't really know you" or something and not said that. Not that that was any better.
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_flame-flame-flame?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:49a45c49-38a0-4fee-8e5c-a8f15b65461bPost:c379be43-fbbd-467c-a831-d287125dc080">Re: FLAME FLAME FLAME</a>:
    [QUOTE]While I get why the thread was wrong, I still wonder why someone brand new would want to meet up with a bunch of internet strangers.
    Posted by specialk84[/QUOTE]
    JesusHChrist. Really?? Why not?? People do it all the time!! GOD.
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    aragx6aragx6 member
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    [QUOTE]While I get why the thread was wrong, I still wonder why someone brand new would want to meet up with a bunch of internet strangers.
    Posted by specialk84[/QUOTE]

    I'm still friends to this day with a girl I met off a Chicago relocation forum.
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    mari0225mari0225
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    [QUOTE]While I get why the thread was wrong, I still wonder why someone brand new would want to meet up with a bunch of internet strangers.
    Posted by specialk84[/QUOTE]

    I get where she was coming from, she thought it would be nice to welcome LDY since she's moving to a new state and all. I would like to have a GTG but i'm worried that I am still considered new so it wouldn't be well received.
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    ahhhitsshannynahhhitsshannyn member
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    I should have put a winky face on the end of that snippy. I was laughing at your comment. Smile

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    Hahaha, Snips, Nicki asked to carpool with me up to the NE GTG and we had never met or anything.  We met a few days beforehand so we both knew the other wasn't an axe murderer.  I'm glad we did.  We would never have had the awesome ride home to the Avenue Q soundtrack.
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: FLAME FLAME FLAME : I'll take it though. It was my rudness that started it. 
    Posted by MyUserName1[/QUOTE]

    <div>Not that I'm in any way involved, but I think it's cool that you appologized, and I hereby un-flame my previous flame.</div>
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    mari0225mari0225
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    I met H online...kinda glad I look the chance there.
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    specialk84specialk84
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    I ETAed my post. I am seriously not trying to backpedal. I've met a few ladies from here (and I met my H online), but it's just outside of my comfort zone to meet a whole group who know each other and have me be the newb. I am not picking on Steffi.
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    aragx6aragx6 member
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    I kinda think some people around here grossly overestimate the number of female axe murderers in this country.
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    While I agree the comment was kinda douchey on LDY's part, I've seen a handful of threads in the past months that talk about GTGs.  Because they didn't pertain to me, I usually didn't read them, so maybe they were inviting everyone, idk.  But it's not like this is the first time there's been a batsignal GTG thread on here for people in a specific area.
     
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    I said it in the thread and I'll say it here - I was being flippiant and just wanted to get my feelings of "ooh, I'm not cool with this" out fast enough. It wasn't nice. And I'm sorry. It was a bad choice of words.
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    [QUOTE]I should have put a winky face on the end of that snippy. I was laughing at your comment.
    Posted by ahhhitsshannyn[/QUOTE]
    Well, that would have made more sense. :)
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    I don't think anyone should be given shitt for not feeling comfortable meeting an internet stranger. 

    However, LDY, you could have said something else, like, "I don't think I know you well enough," or arranged to meet the other ladies a different time. It was just...bad.
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    Snips - I get it, I understand and explained where I was coming from (directed at that poster, not everyone) but to be fair, I was not the only one who thought her loans were outrageous for teacher's college and I was not the only one who stated so, but you seemed to only see my response. 
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    [QUOTE]While I get why the thread was wrong, I still wonder why someone brand new would want to meet up with a bunch of internet strangers. ETA: I'm not picking on Steffi. I just would not feel comfortable trying to meet a bunch of you when I was brand new. It's more of an "I don't get it" than a "WTF is she thinking?"
    Posted by specialk84[/QUOTE]

    Because this is a tricky group to break into. Because it feels like you know the regular posters better than they know you, and you're willing to put yourself out there to make friends. Because you like them from your (limited) experiences with them on the internet, and you want to get to know them better.
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