ok, so I chose my bridesmaids a few months ago, and the middle of sept. I asked all of them to take one day to go and try on the dresses I liked that way I could have them all decide which ones they liked. All of my girls decided on a dress that they liked, the price is $140 but with $20 off since I already bought my dress. They were told that the dresses needed to be ordered & paid for by end of feb, beg of march, I have had a few of my girls tell me that they coudnt afford to buy their dress. The thing that irritates me is that I have given them several months notice of the dress and the price, and also that the one's that say they cant pay for their dress spends their money on other things, like partying (buying alcohol) almost every weekend, and paying i think $150 on just their halloween costume.Am I right to be upset over this??