It's not attractive when I cry... I'm whiter than the sun so I get this ugly red patch on my neck and face when I cry... also my big nose runs and my eye tear up just THINKING about marrying him.I seriously can't believe HE wants to spend the rest of this with ME-.... it blows my mind and makes me cry when I think about our wedding day ... is there anything I can do to stop the tears and red blotches?