So, It's my first wedding, however my fiance is divorced and has two kids. We were planning a big wedding, however because of his parents, I now have the idea in my head that planning a big wedding is a waiste of time, because since its his second wedding, nobody from his side is going to want to come.
Should I still plan a big wedding, or am I just waisting time and money?
My family is excited.. however now I'm doubting going through with a big one...
Also, his family mentions his ex wife awfully a lot... I dont mind when its about the kids, but I do mind when its about her family and their past relationship.
Am I going to end up being just the "2nd wife?"