I was just wondering if there is a big age difference between any of you and your fi. This is both of our second marriages, i have been divorced for a year and fi has been separated for 13 years. Im 27 and he is 41. Now I dont have a problem with the age difference I love him more then I could ever know and all of our families are ok with, we just have a few friends that are like wtf are you thinking. Does anyone think thats to big of a difference?