Hi Everyone - so here's my dilema (kinda long): We're having a destination wedding in FL. It's on the beach and when I originally booked the pavilion for our date on Fri only the smaller one was available (which was fine at the time because we were planning a local reception.) Since then we've both agreed to just have everything in FL. Unfortunately, we will have more guests than we can accommodate in the small pavilion, so we asked to keep the ceremony Fri and move the reception to Sat in the big pavilion. The catch, the place requires the pavilion on Fri to be utilized for food because they are a restaurant. My family suggested to offer the option after the ceremony to join us for dinner, however it will be individual bills restaurant style....... How do I clarify in the invitations that we're not paying for the optional restaurant dinner after the ceremony; that it's not part of the "main events" and the reception we are fronting is on Sat. Help :-/ I'm not good at this stuff.