My husband and I have been married since December 17, 2006 and it was a rush wedding because we got pregnant. We tried to have a nice wedding laterbut my sister in law had us change it to our in laws 50th birthday party. And we had a small ceremony in the church so that we could become Catholic tht only involed a few people from our family. We wanted to have the wedding we always wanted but, we are not sure. My mother in law says that would be great. We don't want gifts or money we just want to have the day that we never got. Is that wrong? We want to declare our love for each other infront of the entire family.