So I am converting to Judiasm. My FI was raised Orthodox, but currently practices Conservative. I plan on converting Conservative, but have been attending a Reformed temple. I don't really know what traditions I should have at the wedding. My FI has not been to a wedding since he was a kid so he doesn't know what he wants either. We also have problems with finding a Rabbi for our wedding because we attend both a conservative shul and a reformed temple. Our orthodox Rabbi will not officiate our wedding which I understand, but my FI is a little dissapointed about having a reformed rabbi. I won't be converted by then because it takes a year to convert including about 6 months of classes. We are getting married this november and I don't really know what to do. Plus, we are getting married in a central location that is an even 3 hours away from all of the major cities in TX. Our reformed Rabbi would have to drive 3 hours to officiate the wedding. Is it appropriate to ask him to do this or should we try and find another rabbi who is closer?