We've gotten a lot of our RSVP cards but we're now past our return date--a week past actually! We're really worried about those that have not RSVPed showing up and us not having enough food for them. We heard about a couple of weddings that had a check-list and if you weren't on it, you could eat. Should we do that and if they get mad, say "hey--it's your fault because I gave you the RSVP card along with a stamped, addressed envelope--how much easier could I make it?" Or if we did a seating chart would they get the idea if their name wasn't on the list???
These are the people that I don't like!