I have a HUGE problem. Okay, I have a few HUGE problems, lol. I will start with my biggest one: my boyfriend and I have been together for just under a year and a half (our 18 month anniversary is this weekend). We have talked about getting married for about the last 6 months but he hasn't bought the ring yet. I THINK he might be waiting until our 1.5 year anniversary to pop the question, but I'm not sure. We looked at rings together and he told me I could choose whatever one I wanted. I found this awesome ring that was exactly what I want. He said money didn't matter, he is going to put it on his credit card and pay it off anyways, but I kinda feel bad it's over $5,000. It IS the ring I'll lilterally be wearing for the rest of our lives, so that should count for something, right? I guess I am asking if I should push him to tell me if he bought it, see if he IS going to pop the question this weekend (I want to be sure I am wearing something totally awesome, we have plans to go out to dinner to celebrate but I want to look really hot) and I also want to see if anyone else has been through this? How do I find out if he's proposing without actually asking him? Everyone says we are perfect for eachother (I think so, too), but I know my parents think I am too young (I am a really mature 18 year old and he's 29, but age doesn't really matter when you love someone). We've been together forever already and I can't imagine my life without him. he has had a great job in a cell phone store (he won't ever lose this job, since everyone has a phone, right?) for the past year. I don't work, since I am going to school right now, but as soon as I graduate I will be working, too. I love him so much and I love his 2 kids, too. I can't wait to be a step-mom to them, especially since his 2 exes are C.R.A.Z.Y. (literally, I mean I don't get why they won't leave him alone, he pays child support and has the kids every weekend). Sorry this is so long, I guess I just wanted to know what to do here....should I pressure him or just wait? what do you suggest, ladies?