Hey guys, This is my first time posting on the military board but my fiance is about to go to Officer Candidate School and we were planning a wedding for January 2011. We have discussed going to the JOP before he starts and then having our vow renewal ceremony and reception on our original date, if everything works out to have it then. I'm not sure how I feel about this because I worry if it takes anything away from the bigger ceremony/reception later. For those of you that have done this, how did it feel for you?