I have a good friend who is pretty upset I haven't asked her to be a bridesmaid. We are good friends but not as close as others and I unfortuantly had to make the cut somewhere. Ever since I got engaged she has tried talked to me way more than usual and asks me almost daily how the planning is going and if I need any help....this makes me feel even more guilty about the fact I'm not asking her to be a bridesmaid. My other friends that are bridesmaid's have told me that she has asked them who my bridesmaid's are--they have just replied with that they don't know--and has made comments that she better be one. Do you have any suggestions for a "role" I can have her play in my wedding?? We are still in the process of planning with our Pastor so I don't know if there will be a reading I can give her, so do you have any other ideas?? I don't want to just come out and tell her she's not until I have another role I can ask her to fill.