No one was calling you names or insulting you. I know that wasn't my goal. But there are some real red flags in your situation, and there are big decisions you have to make affirmatively, rather than wait for them to happen to you. You are 100% right that you have to create the best environment you can for the child. But not addressing your future with his/her father is going to be a big problem for the child. You don't have to have a wedding, but that doesn't mean you can't get married. And you don't have to marry the guy, but you need to have The Talk about where the relationship is going. It can't be good for a kid to be raised by two parents who are wavering on whether they want to stay together and just want to "see what happens." I hope you'll come back and see that we're not out to get you, but are bringing in some perspective that you may not have being in the center of it all. Sometimes an outside pair of eyes (or several) can help you see things in a new light.
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